Netflix and chill
April 1, 2016
In recent years, Netflix has become not just a glorified time waster, but instead, a new relationship maker.
The phrase “Netflix and chill” was not used until a tweet in 2009 from the user NofaceNina, which said, “I’m about to log onto Netflix and chill for the rest of the night.”
Netflix and chill did not become a euphemism, however, until November 2014, when a photo began floating around Tumblr and Twitter whose caption read, “The Netflix and chill starter pack,” and featured pictures of comfortable clothes and a condom.
Netflix and chill is, according to fusion.net, defined as a code phrase for hooking up, whether between people in a relationship or simply as a booty call.
Despite the sexual connotation, Netflix hasn’t shied away from the phrase. In early February 2016, Netflix even conducted a survey about Netflix and chill for 1,008 people from ages 1829.
According to the study, 72% of people say staying in and watching Netflix is one of their favorite casual date nights. In addition, 51% believed sharing a Netflix password means the relationship is serious, and 58% of people bond over Netflix.
As of late 2015, Netflix had around 69.2 million subscribers according to fool.com.
And if 58% of that number really do bond over Netflix, then that means that around 40 million people can bond over Netflix, which gives us a clue about how Netflix and chill has become so popular.
But is the phrase Netflix and chill actually ever used by students at New Trier? A senior girl who wished to remain anonymous didn’t believe it wasn’t used as anything more than a joke.
“I had a guy ask me to come over to his house to watch a movie and chill, which I guess is the same thing, but he didn’t actually say Netflix and chill. I think when people say Netflix and chill it’s more of a joke than anything else,” she said.
Senior Ceejay Xiong agreed, saying that Netflix and chill is never actually used seriously.
“That’s a weird way to ask someone to hook up,” Xiong said. “Netflix and chill just sort of happens, you don’t really plan on it.”
Netflix and chill is mostly used as a euphemism because people might feel awkward about actually asking someone to straight up hookup, but according to senior Jamie Knippen, people are probably not shy about asking to hook up.
“I’m sure people do it a lot, 100%. It’s just another way to basically booty call someone,” Knippen said.
As to why the phrase became popular, Xiong said it was only a matter of time before someone came up with a clever saying to describe what was happening.
“I know people that have been Netflix and chilling for years, and I think somebody finally put together a funny phrase to describe what is actually happening. It’s one of those
things that if a few people start saying it, it becomes mainstream fairly easily,” Xiong said.
Despite Netflix and chill being a clean way to ask someone to hookup, it has become more of a joke around New Trier than anything.
“It’s a funny phrase,” Xiong said. “But it can’t be taken too seriously.”